Yet my people have forgotten me; they burn incense to worthless idols, which made them stumble in their ways. Jeremiah 18:15 We usually think of prayer as an act of saying “yes” to God. We think of it as saying “yes” to the existence of God and “yes” to a relationship with God. But too often the God that we are unknowingly saying “yes” to is a god who is made in the image of … [Read more...] about Saying No to False Gods as Prayer
Longing as Prayer
As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for the living God, When can I go and meet with God? Psalm 42: 1-2 We can go days, even weeks without food. But we cannot go very long without water. Water is a basic survival need. When any of us are deprived of water for a while, our body begins to ache. Our stomach hurts, our head throbs, our mouth … [Read more...] about Longing as Prayer
Doubt as Prayer
Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this?” Luke 1: 18 We may think of prayer as an act of faith. And so it is. But prayer can also be an honest expression of our uncertainty and doubt. We want to trust God. We want to have faith. But we have so many questions. So many things are unclear and uncertain. Where do we take our doubts if not to God? Where do we voice our … [Read more...] about Doubt as Prayer
Protest as Prayer
How long, O Lord, must I call for help, but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save? Why do you tolerate wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds. Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails. Habakkuk 1:2-3 These words of protest are not the words of a cynic. They are not the words of a scoffer. … [Read more...] about Protest as Prayer
Questioning God as Prayer
Why, O Lord, do you stand far off? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble? Psalm 10:1 The psalmist addressed urgent questions to God. Where are you God? Where are you when we really need you? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble? These are desperate, challenging questions. The psalmist is not posing these questions to a religious leader or scholar in hopes of getting some … [Read more...] about Questioning God as Prayer
Being Heard by God as Prayer
Give ear to my words, O Lord, consider my sighing. Listen to my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray. In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation. Psalm 5:1-3 Prayer is being heard by God. Prayer is based on the amazing reality that God hears us. God hears our words. God hears our hearts. As the psalmist says, God … [Read more...] about Being Heard by God as Prayer
Being Seen by God as Prayer
She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her, You are the God who sees me, for she said, I have now seen the One who sees me. Genesis 16:13 This prayer, recorded in Genesis 16, is the prayer of Hagar, the Egyptian servant of Abraham and Sarah. Years after God had promised Abraham and Sarah children, and no children had come, they took it upon themselves to “build a family through” this … [Read more...] about Being Seen by God as Prayer
Prayer in a Pandemic
Hello dear ones. We, as a world wide community, are experiencing an extraordinary moment together. I hope you are safely sheltered in place. I pray that you are finding some peace in the midst of the fears, patience in the midst of the waiting and comfort in the midst of the grief. I will be posting over the next many months from my book An Enduring Embrace: Discovering the Love at the Heart … [Read more...] about Prayer in a Pandemic
Notes to Our Older Selves: Allow Yourself to Be
Dear Older Self, You have been a doer. You have been a spouse, a parent, a grandparent, a helping professional. Doing has been a big part of your identity. And, more specifically, it has been a big part of your identity to do for others. The many needs and tasks around you have kept you moving, kept you busy, kept you tasking. Sometimes this has overwhelmed you. Sometimes it has been stressful. … [Read more...] about Notes to Our Older Selves: Allow Yourself to Be
Notes to Our Older Selves: Be Open To Love
Dear Older Self, Your 97 year old friend who said, “ I think I am learning to let go of pride, in order to get ready for heaven,” spoke with a clarity that startled you. For her, pride had been a form of defensiveness. It had been her attempt to stay in control by always being on the giving end of things and rarely on the receiving end. Her pride was her attempt to push away vulnerability by … [Read more...] about Notes to Our Older Selves: Be Open To Love